Many of us learned to forgive the way children learn to say sorry. You say the words, shake hands and agree not to mention it again. That works for small things. With deeper wounds it often fails, and people who have forgiven that way are left wondering why the anger keeps coming back years later. Some decide they never really forgave at all.
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The Sin of Partiality
James describes a scene that could happen in almost any church service. Two visitors walk in. One wears gold rings and fine clothes; the other is dressed in shabby clothes. The well-dressed man is shown to a good seat, and the poor man is told to stand at the back or sit on the floor.
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The book of Joel opens with a disaster. Wave after wave of locusts swept through Judah until the fields and vineyards were stripped bare and the people faced years of hunger.
Continue reading “What the Locusts Ate, God Can Restore”The Cost of Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace
Picture a man at work who tells everyone he is saved. He drinks heavily most weekends, moves from one girlfriend to the next and laughs it off as sowing his wild oats. Whenever someone gently points out the contradiction, he answers cheerfully, “I’m saved. I’m under grace.”
Continue reading “The Cost of Cheap Grace vs. Costly Grace”The God Who Meets You in the Ordinary
Picture a woman at her kitchen sink at the end of a long, discouraging day. As she washes the dishes, a verse she memorised as a child comes back to her without her looking for it, and something in her steadies that nothing else had reached all week.
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Ten men with leprosy called out to Jesus for mercy, and all ten were healed as they went to show themselves to the priests. Only one of them came back to thank Him.
Continue reading “Why Gratitude Is a Discipline, Not a Feeling”Modesty Was Never About the Neckline or Hemline
When Samuel arrived at Jesse’s house to anoint Israel’s next king, he expected to recognise him on sight. Eliab, the eldest son, walked in first and looked every inch a king. God stopped Samuel before he could act.
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Aaron’s excuse for the golden calf is one of the strangest sentences in the Bible. He had collected the people’s gold and shaped it into an idol himself, yet when Moses confronted him, he described it as something that had happened without him.
Continue reading “The Ownership Nobody Wants to Take First”Not All That Glitters: The Danger of Choosing by What Pleases the Eye
Fool’s gold has disappointed many hopeful prospectors. Pyrite glints a warm yellow in the pan, and at a glance it can pass for the real thing.
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Picture a young pastor who starts a congregation with four people in a rented room above a shop: his wife, his sister and two elderly neighbours who come more out of politeness than conviction. For nearly two years the number barely moves.
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